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09 May 2010
I often reference a particular experience from childhood as being a turning point in shaping my life: the season when my mother led a community wide campaign to build our neighborhood and school a playground. In today's world of cause related marketing campaigns, I am surprised how many times I reflect back on this community project and the relevance it still has today. On this special day of Mother's day, I think it is time I shared the story of my mother, @NonprofitDiva, the batsh*t crazy shaniqua shwartz of the upper upper east who inadvertently planted the seeds of social justice that now grow like a wild weed in me. But hey, today's not about me :) ...
A long time ago in a Jersey suburb not so far away, a young @ecoblips (that's me!) had not yet entered grade school. I couldn't sit still and was such a bratty terror I couldn't keep a baby sitter around for more than a few months, if that. Made worse, though our neighborhood was on the posher side of town, the elementary school's playground was so old that it had been deemed unfit for use. Where was lil' ecoblips to go and raise a ruckus and why weren't the other parents in the neighborhood concerned about this 'injustice'?, or so I could hear my mother think outloud as we complained about the state of affairs. And for a brief second, the fire in my mother's eyes pulled my attention away from cartoons and super mario brothers and...well, everything.
From that second on, what was important for me, had forever changed. My mother and her best friend, then co-presidents of the Parent Teacher Association, assembled our neighborhood and community and pleaded with the school board for funding. Too middle class to gain funds, my mom decided to lead the campaign to do it ourselves, all from the tiny confines of our home. The living room became the strategy session room where community members came over to discuss resources and development costs, permits and legalities. The basement video game system had been moved so we could print t-shirts for our new cause, the Mt. Pleasant Playground. The weekends had turned into intrepid travels where my mom drove us to scour New Jersey's parks, looking for 'a few good playgrounds'.
The campaign's tenets and execution were not that different then, to how things get done today. My mom found the key 'connectors' in the community: the family that owned the pizza shop on Mt. Pleasant Ave, and the bagel place on Northfield. The commissioner of the Little League at Sunday soccer games and the owner of the leading video store: these town spots that received the most traffic also received 5 gallon water jugs to raise money for our cause. She took the fire in her eyes and made the cause all of our causes. And wouldn't you know, engaging the entire community in the campaign most relevant to our own backyards actually made a difference back in 1985, just as much as it does today.
That season of my life, I watched my mom lead our community in building the coolest tire playground I had ever seen. I got to print my own t-shirt with our brand, nibble on pizza donated through our hard work, and hit a hammer on a nail that went into the tire that went into the playground that we could all call our own. A week after our entire neighborhood came together and physically built that playground with our collective sweat and toil, I stood next to my mom and watched tears roll down her face as the playground went up in flames. Some teenagers left a stray cigarette burning...the whole thing burned to the ground and the rest was history.
That history includes watching my mom not give up, but rather spend the next twenty five years fighting for what she believed in, in local political campaigns, my own freedom to show up as I am, for the children of ALYN Hospital that are so fortunate to have her, and for my brother and I, who may blame our mother for absolutely everything under the sun, but who also know that it is from this phenomenal root that we so gratefully derive.
Thank you...
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